I like a boy a lot. I've tried being his friend and I'm still trying. But he'll never like me because I know am ugly. Most people just say 'no your not!' but I'm sure I am. I've never been asked out in my life. I'm really sad and I don't know how to handle this situation. Any advice?
Maria, 15, Argentina
If I were you I would leave him alone, if he doesn't like the way you are only because you are ugly he doesn't deserve you.
ReplyDeleteIt doesn't matter if your are beautiful or ugly. The important thing is that you are beautiful in your way and you have to get confidence enough for to ask him out. Because we are sure, that if he don't like you, you'll find someone who really loves you.
ReplyDeleteMaria, first of all you should be sure of yourself, you need to love you because if you don't love you nobody will do it. You shouldn't think that you're ugly, because while you are worring about this, he is living his own life. So, trust us if we say that you're pretty and go and get him!
ReplyDeleteif you really like this boy I can't see the reason to stop trying with him. So stand up your head and go for your boy!
ReplyDeleteJOanic,16, Barcelona
Hello Maria, I'm sure that you aren't ugly as you said. I think that if you are in love with this boy, you must keep trying to be his friend, and don't stop being with him because if he is a good boy and he is in love of you too, he doesn't mind your aspect. I hope you'll have lucky.
ReplyDeleteMireia Almagro, Barcelona
Maria, there's one important thing you should remember, if you don't love yourself, how do you expect that the others love you? You shouldn't thing that you are ugly, because if you think that, that's the idea you are sending to the others. So, you should forget this boy until you accept yourself, because if you are happy with yourself, the others will notice that. So, love yourself and this boy will came to you :)
ReplyDeleteHi Maria, i think that you have to think that you aren't ugly, because if you think that, you don't go anywhere. You have to show him your feelings and keep trying.
ReplyDeleteGood luck!